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Mewtwo & Finding Your Purpose!

Published March 30, 2020 by Shay Taree

Welcome to another Monday everyone and so this week as you can tell by the title I decided to talk about finding out purpose. I also decided to use the pokemon character Mewtwo as a example of this. So check out the video and feel free to comment below your thoughts.

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Calling Attention To Your Faults!

Published July 30, 2019 by Shay Taree

What made me think of this topic is due to a conversation that I had with my boyfriend. He helped me to call attention to something I didn’t realize was a problem. That problem was that I tended to not always do what I say I’m going to do or doing what I want to do regardless of what others want. Hearing him say this really brought to my attention that I need work on this because it isn’t fair to those around me.

So now I’m wondering how I can solve this problem. Well maybe not solve but definitely work on it. I know that one of the things I plan to do is start to notice when I’m doing those things and stop it right away. This way I can correct that behavior before it becomes an issue.

I also know that there are other things that I need to work on like trying to listen to others more and also taking criticism better. But I know that this is a start.

So now I recommend that everyone think about something that they may need to work on. Also if you do think of something how do you plan to overcome this issue or resolve it? If comfortable comment down below and let me know. I’m interested to read everyone’s comments.

~Shay Taree

Following Your Purpose!

Published July 25, 2019 by Shay Taree

So I know that this past weekend I had wrote a tweet talking about following my path and feeling like something was missing. Well let me explain just a little bit more.

Since I was a kid I’ve always like reading and watching the stories of people who are now famous. Like how they got there, their hardships, and finally making it. I’ve always thought my purpose was doing entertainment since I could never see myself working a typical 9-5 job. Sitting at a desk just didn’t seem to suit me and daydreaming of having my name in lights and people knowing my name always filled my head.

Now as an adult I still have those dreams. So when I watch stuff on tv or YouTube of my favorite actors/actress I start to panic thinking that something is missing and that I’m doing something wrong. It’s a weird feeling but all I can say is that it feels like something is calling my name and that I’m meant for something greater.

I guess that may be one of the reasons why I got involved with YouTube and blogging since it allows me to be creative and express myself. Also yes I do work a regular job and while I enjoy it I do know that it’s something I’m not meant to do forever.

This is what lead me to make that tweet. It was a way of telling myself that I would focus on my dreams more and also fulfill them. So here is to the future and following your dreams!

So please everyone that is out there be sure to follow your dreams no matter what people say.

~Shay Taree

Trent Shelton’s The Greatest You Review!

Published June 21, 2019 by Shay Taree

So I’m doing my first self improvement/positivity book and it was by motivational speaker Trent Shelton. So check out what I had to say about this book and check out his channel.

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Motivational Monday: Dealing With Sadness!

Published June 10, 2019 by Shay Taree

So I decided to make a video on this topic due to something that I was dealing with today that I will explain in the video. So check out the video and I hope that this helps someone if they are dealing with any sadness. Plus I hope this helps everyone to start their week off on the right foot.

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Being Your True Self!

Published May 10, 2019 by Shay Taree

So I wanted to talk about being your true self because I’m sure that many of us change how we are depending on who we are around. Now I know sometimes we have reasons like if we are in a professional setting or things like that but I mean like holding back positive parts of ourself that we love about ourselves.

Now I know that we a lot of times can’t be our complete selves and a lot of times feel out the room to find out what is considered acceptable behavior. I think that’s okay but I mostly mean like holding back talking about positive hobbies or things like that. Trust me I know that talking about personalities and being yourself can go many different routes.

I can honestly say that I do this mostly because I know that I would be made fun of or looked at differently due to these parts. The parts I’m mostly talking about are the nerdy and talkative parts of myself. I let these parts out when I’m around people who truly allow me to be myself.

But there are certain people that I hold these parts back with. This is mostly because I’ve let these parts out before and I was either made fun of (friends) or told later that those parts made me seem childish (certain family).

Well I’m here to say that I’m learning overtime that I don’t care about what people say about these parts of myself. I truly love who I am and the personality that I have. If someone has an issue with that then that’s on them not on me.

Now I will say that there are moments where I still don’t feel comfortable with it depending on who the people are because it’s still a work in progress. But overall I’m realizing that the Lord made me this way for a reason and gave me this personality for a reason. So I should enjoy sharing it.

But have any of you ever felt this way? If so then what made you accept that part of yourself or what made you change? Plus do you have any advice for others? Comment down below!

~Shay Taree

Being More Open

Published May 9, 2019 by Shay Taree

I know that a lot of people wonder why a person is so open online. Also when I mean open I mean being open about their feeling, their experiences, and also just anything else you can think of. Sometimes people are comfortable with being open and I can understand that. The reason being because they may not know the people that they speak with online or they want to use their time online not focusing on what is going on in their personal lives.

For me I understand both aspects. Sometimes I enjoy being more open online especially if I feel like it would help others. Like giving them encouragement or making them feel like they aren’t alone. I do this because I know of many others online who were open and it helped me a lot.

But I understand the other aspects since I don’t always know the people who respond back and I want to keep some parts of myself private.

So what do you guys feel about this? Do you prefer to be more open online or do you like keeping personal things a little bit more secretive? Comment down below and let me know.

~Shay Taree

Morning Routines

Published March 25, 2019 by Shay Taree

For this weeks video on Self care I decided to talk about morning routines. Mostly I’m discussing why I have a morning routine and also what my morning routine consists of. So comment down below on if you have a morning routine and what your favorite part is. Plus feel free to comment down below any ideas that you have for future videos.

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Meditation!

Published February 21, 2019 by Shay Taree

As I’m sure many of you have read before I’ve been trying to practice meditation. I know that for a lot of people meditation just seems like a lot of sitting and breathing but it’s a lot more than that. For me it gives me a sense of calm and let’s me focus on the things that I love and enjoy. It takes me away from the stresses of life for just a little bit and also helps me to better handle certain situations.

I decided to try meditation since I heard so much about it and the benefits that it has. Sometimes I have moments where I have a lot of anxiety and get depressed and I wanted to try something to help me handle it.

Now I tried many different apps and even YouTube for simple meditation and some worked and some didn’t. The best advice I can give is to start slow. Start with meditating for like 5 mins or less and then increasing time from there.

Currently I use an app for Insight timer and you can use the meditations for free but there is a paid version for $9.99 and includes some really interesting courses. I’ve taken a few that have interested me and they have been pretty helpful.

So try out some meditation practices and start slow. Also don’t get mad at yourself if you lose focus it happens.

~Shay Taree

Self-Confidence & Self Care Journey!

Published January 22, 2019 by Shay Taree

So since the beginning of this year I’ve been continuing to be on this journey of self-confidence and self care. The main reason why I’ve decided to do this is because I’ve been wanting to stop really depending on how people think about me and start trying to love myself how I am. Plus I’ve been wanting to have my own self-care routine.

So one of the things I started doing was greatly lowering my social media usage. I know from before I mentioned doing this but over the holidays I definitely fell off the wagon. But now from the hours of 10:00 pm and 9:00 am I don’t allow myself to use it. This makes where in the mornings when I’m getting ready for work I’m unable to check social media.

This has also allowed myself to do other things during the morning that is more helpful for me. Such as journaling, meditating, and working out. If you like I can make a video soon about my morning routine and self care routine. But so far this has been helpful for me since now I don’t waste time just helplessly scrolling through my feed.

As for mediating and journaling both of these things have been super helpful and I’m excited to do them more. I’m trying this meditation app called Insight Timer and I’m using the classes on there to work on certain mindsets that I want to change. When I combine that with journaling it makes me feel so happy during the day and much more calmer.

But those are the things that I’ve been doing during this new year. What have you been doing to make yourself either physically or emotionally better? would you like to see that video where I discuss my morning routine or the apps that I use on my phone that help with this process? Comment down below and let me know.

Have a great day!

~Shay Taree