I think that one of the things that everyone strives for in life is happiness. I mean everywhere you go there are quotes, influencers, and also people in our lives talking about happiness. So it got me thinking about what makes you happy?
For me when I asked myself that question I realized that what makes me the happiest is when I’m helping people. I like seeing people happy and especially knowing that I put that smile on their face. Whether it’s getting them something or helping them with a problem. It’s just always makes me feel nice.
Then besides that just being around the people that I love so much. So now I want to know what makes you guys happy. Comment down below and let me know.
Even though Valentine’s day is over I decided to do a video listing my favorite anime love stories. Also see if you can hear my dad knocking on my door while I was recording. Plus comment down below on what your favorite anime love story is.
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Now I decided to title this blog post as seeking validation because I realized that was what I was seeking when it came to Instagram. I was seeking to raise my Instagram followers to validate for myself that I was doing better than another individual. Who actually didn’t know we were in this insane competition. I would constantly check where their followers were and would hope that mine got higher than this individuals.
It wasn’t until speaking with my co-worker about one of her friends who is seeking the same thing that I realized what I was doing. I was able to look inside myself and ask myself what was I doing. I realized that I was being so stupid and those followers are just a number. Half of these people I don’t even know and probably will never talk to.
I realized that we all seek validation for different reasons but then I realized that that validation isn’t going to make anything better. We are going to continue to want more and more just to make ourselves feel better. We have to seek that validation through ourselves and not other people.
This is why I’m trying to do more self-love this year. This is why I’m trying to not use social media as much or take it as seriously. I’m trying to keep my focus on producing YouTube videos and helping others because I realize that those things make me happy. Those things make me feel good and the best thing is that I don’t want anything back.
So do you think that you seek validation? If so do you know why you seek it? Are you going to change that? Those are the questions you should ask yourself. If your someone who doesn’t seek validation then I can say I which I was like you and I want to know you secret haha.
But that’s my blog post for today. I hope y’all enjoy it and be sure to check out my social media handles and follow me if you like. Ironic I know haha. But I honestly I hope that y’all enjoy the day and be grateful for all that you have.
So I’m continuing my journey to strengthen my self-confidence and this has led me to a new project. As I’m sure many of you know journaling is something that many people suggest to help with anxiousness and to get your feelings out.
I’ve always enjoyed journaling and I decided to try a new journaling exercise that I hope with help some of you. This journal exercise will need you to be very real and true about your feelings.
Pretty much what your going to do is write down the name is a person or people that you’re jealous of, insecure around, or just don’t like. Then write down the reasons why. After writing down the reason come to a conclusion about why you dislike this person or are jealous. Then take it a step further and write down what your fears are regarding this person and what you hope changes.
So far I’ve only done this for one person and it really helped to put my feelings into perspective. Do I all of a sudden feel better about this person, no but it does help to me to see why I feel this way. It also showed me that my issue is not with the person but more so about my feelings about them.
It’s a journaling exercise that I hope to continue and I hope that some of you use this too!
So once again I’m back with another anime discussion and this time I’m talking about some our childhood anime that we enjoyed as a kid. But now I’m talking about the issues with these anime now that I’m an adult. Don’t worry I’m not going to drag the shows for too long but I honestly enjoyed making this video so enjoy.
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I know that so many of us have dreams and things that we want to do. I know that I definitely do. I’m sure many of you know that my dream is to do Youtube full time one day but I also realized that I have another dream. That dream is to help people.
During this journey I’ve been on I’ve been able to help people in many different way. From things as simple as just being there for someone to getting food for someone that’s not able to. I realize that those things make me happy and I enjoy being able to make things easier for people.
So I want to be able to do that with my YouTube channel. But I’m not sure how. I like telling people my views on different anime’s, videos games, and also anime discussion topics but I want to do more.
Sometimes I think about doing story times or even other things that can make others smile. I just want others to be happy because I know how it feels when you have a day where your just unhappy.
So what do you guys think and what ideas do you all have. I’m open to different ideas and open to any feedback that y’all might have. Thanks so much everyone and I hope that you all have a great day.